Tag: be kind

PSA: You Don’t Have to be Nice

by coachamanda, posted in Relationships and Healing

Woman!! You do not need to be nice to everybody! It is absolutely good and necessary to say no and hold the boundary. The pit in your stomach that clenches when you assert yourself - Override it! Say no anyway and move on! Get really good at it so that the pit doesn't appear unless … Continue reading PSA: You Don’t Have to be Nice

Building Connection (Friendship)

by coachamanda, posted in Gestalt & Horses, Horse Training, Horsemanship, Relationships and Healing

I stand atop a hill in the pasture, eyes on my pony below. I observe her for a moment munching hay or napping. I take in a lungful of air and loudly call her name, then follow it up with a loud wolf whistle, a whistle I chose specifically so she would know, that I … Continue reading Building Connection (Friendship)